HAVE YOU GOT MARRIED YET?

HAVE YOU GOT MARRIED YET?

When you are single, every wedding invitation card presents a moment of self introspection for you. Is it right to be single for that long or am I getting old day by day? There are pros and cons for this aspect but as they say, ‘grass is always green on the other side’.

When a boy or a girl turns 25, he/she becomes a candidate for people to suggest a match for them. Funny part is that they think that they have perfect match for him/her. They keep on trying until you get married. But when you get married, every other girl/boy seems to be more beautiful. Did I take the decision too early? Is the obvious question.

Marriage has two types, arraigned and love marriage. The earlier is like a savings account that you open instantly and can close at any time but the latter is like a fixed deposit. You can’t enjoy its benefits until it get matured. It is usable only after its maturity but you are assured that it is there and you aren’t a broke.

Thinking about married life, you have someone else to listen to you all the time. It makes you more responsible with the fact that few lives are associated with you but the jackpot in all is that you have your own baby. Fudgy arms, changing a brat’s poopy dipers felt so dull but now you enjoy it.

Problem is that you all plans are dependent on the other person i.e. your husband/wife. I hope that he/she can come out too. A perfect recipe for a happy marriage is that, specially for boys, be on time at home. Give her surprise gifts at least once in a month. Don’t at all be reluctant to go for shopping. In fact do overacting that you enjoy every bit of it. A wife o=if treated as a friend can be a a good partner but sadly only for a few men their friends turn out to be their wife.

As they say’ shaadi ka ladoo joh khaye pactaye, john a khaye who bhi pachtaye. J